First and foremost, I must say that, “I am an 80’s baby!” LOL! While I was actually born in the early 70’s, by the time the 80’s hit, I was just starting to see and pay attention to the world around me. A whole lot of growing occurred during that 10 year span, and a whole lot of trends and fashions came along with it.
So…here is my list of 10 with a few that I would welcome…and a few, not so much!
1. Okay…to top off my list with one that I would love to come back…the mullet!
In honor of Rowdy Roddy Piper’s recent passing, sporting a mullet, in John Carpenter’s They Live! Courtesy of EW.com
Yes, trust me, I have heard all of the wisecracks…and to this day, my children will still tease me for the bad ass mullet that I once sported with pride…and still would, if not for the stupid jokes! LOL!
Senior Pic…sportin a mullet!
I seriously loved my mullet! Not that it had anything to do with “business in front and party in the back”…it was just so much easier to deal with! Getting ready was a breeze, shower, comb, and done!
2. MTV…please, where did you go…we had such a long and loving relationship for so many years! I would spend hours trying to catch the hunks of my youth, being broadcast into my living room each and every day. While the “Video Killed The Radio Star”, you brought me a world I had never known. Watching the British Invasion take storm, the Big Hair Bands with their Aqua Net and eyeliner, to Headbanger’s Ball rounding out our weekend together.
I Want My MTV!
3. Huaraches…I absolutely loved huaraches! They were so comfortable to wear and I would love to see these come back on the shelves!
4. Ripped Jean and Concert Tee pre-grunge look…Oh yes, I was notorious for my ripped up blue jeans and any kind of concert tee shirt, whether is was a school day or time to go out with friends! I even had a pair of black, high-heeled, slouch boots that I wore to complete the ensemble!
Def Leppard was totally cool!
5. Roach Clip Hair Feathers, Finger-less gloves, and big earings…Now while none of this is anything that I would have any real desire to wear now, mostly because I am not into accessories at 42! But they were so much fun to wear, back in the day. Big earrings were a part of every ensemble and rarely the same, and the feathers were just a fun addition. Lace finger-less gloves were definitely part of a homecoming outfit!
Clip Hair Feathers
Finger-less Lace Gloves
6. Dance and Aerobic Wear…Oh no way! I have always been what I would call a “Healthy Girl” and that stuff leaves absolutely nothing to the imagination! I mean seriously, I don’t want to have all of my nooks and crannies on display, nobody needs to see that!
7. Leg Warmers…thankfully I do not have any pictures of me wearing these items…though I hate to admit that I did indeed have a pink pair, that I wore from time to time. What can I say, I was in grade school! LOL!
8. Parachute pants…no thanks! I am not a fan of clothing that makes noise when you move! At my age, there is enough of me that makes noise…I don’t want my clothes to let you know I am coming!
9. Blue Eye Makeup…Yep, I am guilty as charged! LOL! China Blue Eye Shadow and the occasional blue lashes and liner! Holy Toledo, what was I thinking!?! Now I rarely wear make up at all!
10. Neon…Even though I am really a dark colors kind of girl, at least in the clothes department, I didn’t mind some of those bright and flashy colors! The Neon pinks, purples, and blues were great, but the oranges, yellows, and greens could be a bit much sometimes.
The 80’s for me, was a time to grow and learn who I was. Hours spent listening to music, watching videos, or hanging out with friends added to the nostalgia that I still feel when one of those old songs reaches my ears today. But some of those trends were fun and they could comeback or not for others!
What trends would you like to see comeback…or not?
Today, I am again taking part in this week’s Finish the Sentence Friday, hosted by Kristi from Finding Ninee, with the prompt, “I Wish I Knew!” There are so many things I wish I knew then, what I know now.
When I was a teenager, I thought that my troubles were the greatest and most traumatic ever. Little did I know that my troubles would change and grow as different life experiences hit. But what I was experiencing then, was nothing compared to some of the challenges that I would face in a lifetime. All of the ups and downs that would mold me into the wife, mom, and woman that I have become.
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Boy do I wish I knew then, what I know now, I would make better financial decisions and not have to file bankruptcy. I would have saved and stocked away the money that my dad left me and made wiser decisions with it. I would have skipped the credit cards and stupid spending and purchases. I would have made sure that there was money saved, for a rainy day and whatever else that was required.
I always knew that I wanted to be a mom, but I wish I knew then, what I know now, and how hard and completely rewarding! Divorces and growing pains, mistakes and achievements, happiness and sadness made the road difficult at times. I wish I knew then what I know now about how close and blessed I would be in those three children, who have my heart.
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Definitely, I wish I knew then, what I know now, that the turbulent relationship that I had with my mom, wouldn’t really be resolved, but I would become resigned. I learned, after she passed that she was who she was, and it was her own insecurities that made her that way, through a lot of soul searching and discovery.
In some ways, I wish I knew then, what I know now, but again, I am proud of the woman that I have become. Though a little more money, would be very nice.
My children and I spend much time talking, about this that and everything else. Normally, when they come in to chat, their dad is often in bed. And their voices are loud, and they tend to stand in the doorway directly across from our bedroom! I am constantly telling them to whisper and not be so loud!
If we are out at a store, often conversation turns a bit crazy, and when they should whisper they don’t. Speaking loudly, you know that their voice just carried at least 3 aisles over, and overheard by all in that vicinity! Why must I constantly say, “Shhh”! Only to be looked at quizzically as though I have the problem!
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Why, when I have a headache, must they come in, talking as if they were outside in the middle of nowhere! I don’t understand why it is so hard to learn to whisper, and the appropriate times to do so.
I have been blessed with three amazing children, and only the oldest has learned the art of whispering, at almost 22. Children, why are they so loud, about all that they do? I often times wish that there was a volume button.
I love them with all of my heart, but why are they so loud? Why can’t they learn to whisper?
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Cute teddy bear in pink pyjama resting in the bed
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Today, I am taking part in this week’s Finish the Sentence Friday, hosted by Kristi from Finding Ninee, with the prompt “I didn’t listen to anybody’s advice when”…and personally, I am glad that I didn’t listen!
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I met my first husband, when I was 15 years old, and we were together through my remaining High School years. We had planned on getting married at some point after I graduated, but nothing was specifically set in stone. That is until his parents planned on moving out of state, which made us decide to do it before they left. They planned on giving us the mobile home that they had, so we would have a place to start out married life, as a wedding gift. But my family all told me that the marriage would never last, and I should not do it.
Well we did get married and no it didn’t last, but I am still glad that I didn’t listen! Even though the marriage broke up, I don’t consider it a mistake. I learned a lot from the marriage and consequently from the divorce. But more importantly than any of that, I was blessed with a beautiful baby boy out of that 5 year marriage.
That beautiful little boy, was absolutely heaven sent! He is my best friend, confidant, and he has always been a huge source of support for me and I him. He helped me take care of my mom, when she lived with us, no matter the task he was there. Whether it was just staying with her, helping with changing her diapers, giving medicine, or taking a plate of food. He would throw in a pizza to help me get dinner for his brother and sister, or made sure they were doing homework, or helping them get their baths, if I was busy doing something else. He has always had my back and I his.
Because I didn’t listen, I am also blessed with a set of grandparents for my two youngest, in my exes parents. My parents are both deceased as are my current hubby’s parents, so they are the only surrogate grandparents that my two youngest have. They send birthday cards and Christmas gifts, which to me is beautiful and something that they didn’t have to take on, but it is a blessing that they wanted to do that. I feel blessed with the relationship that I have with them.
Kids on Easter Sunday!
So no I didn’t listen to anybody’s advice when I got married the first time, and I am glad that I didn’t listen!
Being able to pretend is a priority some days, I pretend to save my sanity, at least. Kids bickering and chores to accomplish, homeschooling and daily living, lead to stress and some days are more stressful than others. Luckily for me, I have always had an active imagination, sometimes a bit too much so, allowing me to be quite the daydreamer.
They who dream by day are cognizant of many things which escape those who dream only by night. EDGAR ALLAN POE, “Eleonora” Photo Courtesy of notable-quotes.com
When the kids are bickering, grouching, or whining about something, I pretend they are duct taped to the wall…including their mouths. I would of course make sure they had an airway! It helps me pretend to save my sanity, just visualizing them duct taped to the wall, and makes me chuckle! Of course, my children would likely enjoy it…especially if they could speak! My mom used to say to me, when I was being obstinate…”You would argue with God if given the chance!” Now I must admit that this was true of me, but I met my match…my hubby and my three beloved monsters! Karma at work!
Sometimes, when the bills get a little stressful and money is tight, I make sure to pretend that I have won a Publisher’s Clearing House sweepstakes…the big one! Hey a girl can dream right!?! I will be able to pay off my house, and tear it down! Do a re-build from the ground up, huge basement, open concept, 4 bedroom, 3 bath, ranch style house, complete with a massive deck, huge 2 car garage and a pool! We will be able to travel to all of the places we have dreamed of seeing, and maybe even buy a small motor home. D-man would have to have a new car, and maybe even pay his rent for him for a year, or just a nice bit to add to his savings. Savings accounts would be a must for the little ones, too. Oh this dream could go on forever! It helps me pretend to save my sanity!
Being able to pretend and use my imagination, has always been a coping mechanism for me. Some days it works and other days I just pretend to save my sanity!
Happy National Junk Food Day…hooray for junk food! I confess, I love junk food, especially if chocolate is a part of that junk food! I love chocolate…with alcohol, in cakes or brownies, candy bars, cookies, and any other way possible! I am a junk food junkie…which would explain why my britches are a little snug! But it is all good, because I don’t deny, I simply moderate!
So here is my top ten list of favorite junk food…and not necessarily in this order! LOL!
1. A glazed donut with a big marshmallow stuffed in the center and roaster over an open fire! Yummy!
Roasted Marshmallow Glazed Donut!
2. Brownies, especially with walnuts.
Homemade Brownies topped with Powdered Sugar…sadly, no nuts though!
3. Hot Fudge Brownie Sundae Cake topped with soft, serve, vanilla ice cream.
Hot Fudge Sunday Cake w/ Ice Cream
4. Mini Chocolate Donut Gems and Kelly’s Sour Cream and Onion Potato Chips. Sadly, Kelly’s went out of business years ago, but they originated in the town I live in. That was actually my lunch, everyday in High School…healthy, I know!
5. Rum Balls! Oh I love Rum Balls! My mom would make them for me as gifts at Christmas and my birthday. I was in heaven!
6. Fannie Mae Trinidads! I only get these on a rare occasion, but it is a treat when I do!
Trinidads…Photo Courtesy of Fannie Mae Candies!
7. Now this may not really be junk food, but…I love cottage cheese with Catalina dressing! Any time we go to a buffet, that is the first thing I get on the salad bar!
8. Fried Potatoes! When I was pregnant with D-man, I would fry up a huge bowl, and I mean a tupperware bowl and just go to town!
9. Sweet tarts…the little balls, the original, or the giant chewy ones…they are like crack! I ate so many of them when I was pregnant with lil man, that the doctor gave me what for! I had to much sugar in my urine! Oops!
10. Oh Mountain Dew, how I miss our morning ritual! I drank it all day and everyday! I still drink it almost every day, but only allowing one or two per day.
Yes, indeed, I do love junk food! How could I not, with a mom who baked…constantly! During the holidays, our table was covered with bags of flour, sugar, brown sugar, and powdered sugar. As well as Tupperware containers, chock full of fudges, different kinds of cookies, candies, and any other confection that she could come up with. Again, in moderation, only a couple of cookies in a day or a candy bar every now and then, luckily the kids and hubs wipe any goodies out quickly!
What is your junk food or weird food combo? I would love to hear about it in the comments!