Turn It Up Tuesdays 98!

It’s time to turn up the fun and turn up the party with this week’s amazing Turn It Up Tuesdays 98!

Time to get turned up…and party with us at Turn It Up Tuesday! It’s our 98th week, which means we’re only a few short weeks away from the 100th week here at Turn It Up Tuesday! We’d love to thank each and every one of you for partying with us week after week! Keep stopping by, linking up, and sharing your amazing posts with us here on Turn It Up Tuesday!


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Welcome the lovely ladies of Turn It Up Tuesday!

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Natasha from Epic Mommy Adventures | Stacey from This Momma’s Ramblings | Cathy from A Peek Into My Paradise | April from April Noelle | Jillian from Baby Doodah | Tina from The Happy Creations | Tiffany from MrsTeeLoveLifeLaughter | Cindy from Mom Maven | Melissa from The Coupon Chronicles | Kelly from Making-More | Silvie from My Silly Little Gang | Mari from Living in Mommywood | Tenns from Bliss & Faith | Kimberly from Being a Wordsmith | Nancy from Afro-Chic Mompreneur | Kimberly from Keystrokes by Kimberly | Kelly from Mum-bo-Jumbo | Elaine from Ramblings of a Bad Domestic Goddess | Zografia from Bisozozo | Ginger from Does Your Sister Have Normal Hair | Free from Couponin Diva | Kori from Just Another Mom | Minnie from The Country Cooking Queen’s Weight loss and healthy eathing blog | Amy from Confessions of a Ninja Mom

And welcome our awesome guest hosts for August!

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Dina from Savvy in the Kitchen | Jennifer from MomTricks | Jennice from Mommy in Color | Dawn from Pretty Shabby UK | Tina from Kidz Activities

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Here are the Featured posts from last week!


Cathy chose Minion Recipes! Muddy Buddies Chex Mix from The Jenny Evolution.


Cathy chose Burlap Wreath Tutorial: Denim and Dots Cottage Decor from Kenarry.

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Kori chose 10 Perfect Fonts for Any Project from The Organized Dream. “I’m a bit of a font-a-holic and I’m always looking for different combinations to use on graphics, and printables.”


Kori chose Back To School Shopping Mistakes To Avoid from My Stay at Home Adventures. “We don’t get our shopping list until a couple of weeks before school starts if we’re lucky, so it’s definitely tempting to go hit the stores now when the sales have started. Hopefully this year, I can make it a smart shopping trip!”


Stacey chose 5 Steps to Overcome a Year of Homeschool FAIL from The Journey of a Steward. “What a great post! We, too, had our ups and downs, especially in the beginning. When we started, I was working full time and after becoming a SAHM, it took me some time to figure out what needed to be done. We start a new year, and I totally have a plan and part of it includes taking back control. Thank you so much for sharing!”


Stacey chose Homemade Maple Bars from Fitness Food Diva. “Any time that I go to get donuts for a breakfast treat, I always make sure that I get several of the maple iced. The children both love them and this helps to keep the peace! Now I can make a whole batch for them to fight over…I mean feast over! LOL! Thanks so much for sharing!”


Elaine chose Why I’m Loving Periscope from our very own Tenns from Bliss & Faith. “Great explanation of what it is and how to use it to grow your business.”

Cindy also chose this post. “I too love Periscope and I am looking for more ways to use this new technology. This post makes some great points and gave me some ideas of what I can do moving forward.”


Elaine chose Southern Summer Squash Casserole from Just Us Four. “A great healthy recipe for all that summer squash I was given yesterday”


Dawn chose DIY Sea Glass Decor from Krystal’s Kitsch. “Wow, i did not realise how simple this was. It looks amazing. I will certainly be having a go at this project.”


Dawn chose Fabric and Lace Bow Tie from Flamingo Toes. “I found my tote bag the other day, and wondered what i could do to cheer it up… Now i have the perfect idea, thank you xx”


Amy chose Make Your Blog Super Subscribe-Worthy from our very own Tenns from Bliss & Faith. “I love these tips on how to improve my blog to attract more subscribers. With this list, I can see exactly which areas I need to work on to make my blog more well rounded and complete.”

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Amy chose 15 Fun School Lunch Ideas from The Organized Dream. “i’m always looking for creative and fun lunches to make for my son now that he’s in school. This collection has so many ideas, he’ll never be bored with his lunch again!”


Cindy chose 15 Things to Watch on Netflix for Her from Living Better Together. “Often my hubby works 1 night a week. I am always looking for things to watch that we wouldn’t necessarily watch together. I have added some of the suggestions from this post into my Netflix queue for future watching. Oh, if you haven’t watched Hart of Dixie, start now! I loved this show and I’m so sad there will be no new episodes.”


Silvie chose Minecraft Water Bottle DIY and Summer Fun Series from Nap Time Creations. “I chose this post because my boys love Minecraft and this DIY is easy. I think I’m going to make this DIY as favors for my son’s birthday party, since his theme is Minecraft.”


Silvie chose Fast Comfort Food: Cheesy Broccoli, Chicken and Rice Casserole from Inspiration for Moms. “Three of my favorite things are cheese, broccoli and chicken so I can’t wait to try this recipe.”


Sarah chose Tidepool Jello Cups from I Say Nomato. “I liked the creativity with the tide pool jello cups. A fun treat that kids would not only love to eat but enjoy making as well.”


Sarah chose Banana Split Sticks – Dessert on a Stick! from Frugal Coupon Living. “I liked the banana split sticks because I thought it was the perfect summer treat that’s easy to make, which everyone will enjoy.”


Anuja chose 101 Handmade Days: All the Hearts Quilt from Busy Being Jennifer. “The quilt is beautiful and so is the heart of maker. My prayers for Miss P’s recovery.”


Anuja chose Revamped Free Chair from Fabi Fabu. “Great job at upcycling that chair. Would have loved to see a detailed tutorial.”


Mari chose Strawberry Tropical Fruit Salad with Strawberry-Ginger Dressing from Spoonful of Flavor.


Mari chose Roasted Summer Vegetables with Sage from Little Miss Dexterous.


Natasha chose Why toddlers are like a weather system from Life, Kids, and a Glass of Red. “I love this post! It’s so true – toddlers are just like the weather, beautiful and unpredictable.”

Bouquet of beautiful spring flowers of lilac in a vase on a white vintage wooden board home decor in a rustic style

Natasha chose 5 Things a Mom Should Do Every Day from Nitty Gritty Homeschooling. “As moms, we get lost in the every day function of just being a mom. But we have to take a step back and learn to take care of ourselves. This is a great post, and a reminder that we must take care of ourselves.”


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This Momma’s Meandering Mondays 110!

Sunday is here again, bringing our weekend to a close, and with Monday just around the corner it is time to meander in and join us for This Momma’s Meandering Mondays 110 and a great, big thank you in advance to all of you who link up with us! We are so thankful to have you with us! So pull up a chair and enjoy a cup of joe, and take part in the amazing fun, fabulous crafts, new recipes to tempt your tastebuds, and cool DIY how to’s! There is no better way to start the busy week ahead than hanging out with great friends!

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“What an amazing post! I have always had my struggles with going to church, believing that I don’t need it to have a strong and unwavering faith. Though, when we go, I do sometimes get a good feeling from some of those in attendance and their smiling faces. I am not sure that I will ever get over that struggle however. Thank you so much for sharing!”

Who Am I Fooling? from The Mrs. Tee!

Who Am I Fooling? from The Mrs. Tee!


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PageTurners The Perks of Being a Wallflower!

Welcome, once again, to Page Turners an online book club that has been put together by two amazing bloggers, Shelly from DIY Mama and Lisa from ExpandNG with June’s PageTurners book selection of The Perks of Being A Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky!

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Here is a brief synopsis of The Perks of Being A Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky!

Charlie is a freshman.

And while he’s not the biggest geek in the school, he is by no means popular. Shy, introspective, intelligent beyond his years yet socially awkward, he is a wallflower, caught between trying to live his life and trying to run from it.

Charlie is attempting to navigate his way through uncharted territory: the world of first dates and mix tapes, family dramas and new friends; the world of sex, drugs, and The Rocky Horror Picture Show, when all one requires is that perfect song on that perfect drive to feel infinite. But he can’t stay on the sideline forever. Standing on the fringes of life offers a unique perspective. But there comes a time to see what it looks like from the dance floor.

The Perks of Being a Wallflower is a deeply affecting coming-of-age story that will spirit you back to those wild and poignant roller-coaster days known as growing up.

Now for Shelly’s questions:

1. Describe the book in one word.

I have to really agree with Shelly on this one…for me it was confusing! But I have to also reflect on that time period, for myself, and say that it definitely was that. You see, I lived during that time, and connected with many of those teenage feelings. While I never had to deal with some of the issues, others were there somewhere in the mix.

Now I watch my children go through that confusion and while topics may differ with the generation, the confusion and unsettling feelings exist.

2. Do you agree with Charlie’s friends for completely shutting him out for what he did to Mary Elizabeth?

I see why they did it, but I definitely think that at least Sam and Patrick should have been there a little sooner.

3. Were you surprised when you found out why Charlie had such issues with his Aunt?

Yes, I kind of was…

And now now for Lisa’s questions:

1. I couldn’t help but compare this book to Wonder because the voices in both books are kids. How would you compare the two books?

I really liked Wonder by R.J. Palacio much better, because it offered the ability for a child’s innocence to leave them more open to acceptance. You can read about it here.

In Perks, it dealt with the more difficult struggles of teenage acceptance and the desire to belong in an undesirable world. Which definitely applies to the “Wallflower” crowd, which I was. This book was okay, but the letter reading made it a bit more difficult for me, but through many things I understood it.

2. Toward the end of the book, Charlie’s teacher, Bill, tells Charlie that he’s one of the most gifted people he’s ever known. Bill also tells Charlie that he’s special because he doesn’t think anyone has ever told Charlie that. That was so touching. Did you have a teacher that like?

I had a teacher, that I think was memorable, maybe not always in a good way. I had a High School Business teacher, who was a bit of a hard ass and very no nonsense. Now don’t get me wrong, he was good…and he knew his business, because he taught Accounting, Business Law & Marketing and other business type classes. He told us great stories about Sam Walton and Walt Disney, but he had a temper for stupidity. As there always are, especially in a high school setting, kids who push the envelope…and he would not suffer their antics for long. But if you paid attention and did the work, you could easily float through the class and get A’s with ease.

3. Sorry, I couldn’t come up with a third question. This book just wasn’t for me. But please, tell me your thoughts on the book!

Instead of following up the questions with my thought on the book, I will leave them here in answer to Lisa’s third question…

I can really only give this one 3 to maybe 3 1/2 stars, because I just wasn’t crazy about it. I don’t know if it was the letter writing or the jumbled thoughts of a teenager, I am just not sure. I have trouble understanding my own teenagers at times, let alone one that I do not have a personal and profound relationship with. I understood much of it, especially growing up during those years, and seeing much of that same confusion during my own teen years.

I am glad that I read the book, though I won’t likely read it again. I might however watch the movie at some point, just so I can get a better visualization of the characters…which might help with some of the confusion. I also felt as though there was no completion, and that always bugs me!

Be sure to stop back by towards the end of August for August’s PageTurners book selection “The Princess Bride by William Goldman“! I am so excited to read this book, as it has been one of my all time favorite movies since it came out!

Have you read The Perks of Being A Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky! What did you think? Let me know in the comments!

I Wish I Knew!

Today, I am again taking part in this week’s Finish the Sentence Friday, hosted by Kristi from Finding Ninee, with the prompt, “I Wish I Knew!” There are so many things I wish I knew then, what I know now.

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When I was a teenager, I thought that my troubles were the greatest and most traumatic ever. Little did I know that my troubles would change and grow as different life experiences hit. But what I was experiencing then, was nothing compared to some of the challenges that I would face in a lifetime. All of the ups and downs that would mold me into the wife, mom, and woman that I have become.

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Photo courtesy of livethrucrises.com

Boy do I wish I knew then, what I know now, I would make better financial decisions and not have to file bankruptcy. I would have saved and stocked away the money that my dad left me and made wiser decisions with it. I would have skipped the credit cards and stupid spending and purchases. I would have made sure that there was money saved, for a rainy day and whatever else that was required.

I always knew that I wanted to be a mom, but I wish I knew then, what I know now, and how hard and completely rewarding! Divorces and growing pains, mistakes and achievements, happiness and sadness made the road difficult at times. I wish I knew then what I know now about how close and blessed I would be in those three children, who have my heart.

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Definitely, I wish I knew then, what I know now, that the turbulent relationship that I had with my mom, wouldn’t really be resolved, but I would become resigned. I learned, after she passed that she was who she was, and it was her own insecurities that made her that way, through a lot of soul searching and discovery.

In some ways, I wish I knew then, what I know now, but again, I am proud of the woman that I have become. Though a little more money, would be very nice.

What do you wish you knew?

Corntassle Cottage Chronicle Special Third Edition!

Welcome today to the Corntassle Cottage Chronicle Special Third Edition!

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I have been super busy during this summer time, with yard mowing, school lesson plans, baking, summer camps, books that were read, and a myriad of other things that have kept this slow in coming.

I have been thrilled to do a couple of book reviews, product reviews, shared in #AskAwayFriday, some amazing guest posts, hosted blog hops and participated in blog hops and linky party’s, vacation adventures, and participated in #TuesdayTen, #1Word Blog Hop, and #FinishTheSentence.

Without further ado:

How can you not love that face?

From This…

Corntassle Cottage Breaking News

D-man turns 22, today! Holy cow, where have the years gone? How did he become a man, so quickly? He just recently, well in the last couple of months, and now he will be starting a new job at the beginning of August, and he just bought himself a new car! I cannot express how proud of him, I am.

He is coming over to spend the day with us, have dinner. I am thrilled to have some fresh corn on the cob to go with dinner and 2 pans of homemade brownies, that I will dust with powdered sugar. The house smells wonderful right now, it is going to be hard to wait!

My sweet boy and his new buggy! So proud!

To this…My sweet boy and his new buggy! So proud!

Books I Have been Reading…

A Touch of Romance…

Stormy Persuasion (A Mallory Novel) by Johanna Lindsey – Mallory Family novels are faves of mine!

Dark Embrace (Masters of Time) by Brenda Joyce

Shadows of Whitestone Manor (Winters Family) by Brittany Jo James – You can read my review for it here.

A bit of Real Life…

Prairie Tale: A Memoir by Melissa Gilbert – Awesome…5 Stars!

Confessions of a Prairie Bitch by Alison Arngrim – Awesome…5 Stars!

Why Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me (and Other Concerns) by Mindy Kaling – You can read my thoughts here.

And Something a Bit Different…

Ready Player One by Ernest Cline – Read all about it here.

The Martian by Andy Weir – Read all about it here.

In Learning News

At the request of my dear friend, and twinsie, Echo from The Mad Mommy, I guest posted, for a new site that she is a collaborator for, homeschooling4free, which offers tons of homeschooling resources, for free!

High School Homeschooling Supplies

High School Homeschooling Supplies

I have all of the papers and such put together in a binder, for both kids, for the coming school year. Most of what we do is online, but there are some worksheets that go along with and some of it I just wanted to see the physical work, lil miss has been a bit sneaky in previous years. I also have a math workbook that she will do, based on her grade level, because again, proof of completion! LOL!

Lil miss' Binder for the year!

Lil miss’ Binder for the year!

I have actually started getting all of their work, put together for the remainder of their school years. I even have a basic transcript, based on the class work that lil man has chosen up to this point, for his high school years. This includes the basics of math, literature, science, and history, plus a bit of religious history with learning a basic understanding of all religions, as well as computer, typing, Microsoft Office, forensics, and a personal budgeting program that I am going to put together, which will pretty much cover him no matter what he chooses.

Lil mans Binder for the year!

Lil mans Binder for the year!

The best part, is that I will be able to save it all for when it is lil miss’ turn for these grades. All I will have to do is make a few minor adjustments for classes, because she will focus more on the arts than he will. I starting putting it all together in Microsoft OneNote Notebook, but changed it to a document instead, and I like it so much better.

I still have yet to touch my yarn, to learn to crochet! LOL! Maybe during the winter months, when I no longer have to mow the yard! LOL!

In Other News…

Lil man spent a week at summer camp, and had a wonderful time getting to know a few different kids, since he attended a high school camp this year.

Lil man wearing make up! LOL! Kids!

Lil man wearing make up! LOL! Kids!

Lil miss, stayed home with me that week, and on one of the days, D-man came to get us for a thrift shopping and lunch date! We had a great time!

I still have a few recipes that I have yet to write up and share, but oddly, I can’t figure out if I am fond of the recipe app that I use, or not!

I have also been working on losing some weight, since coming home from vacation. I started putting a bit more focus on cutting down on the amount of soda that I take in and the amount of calories that I consume.

I am happy to say that I have managed to lose about 25 pounds total, and would be happy to drop maybe 25 more. I know that I could do it quicker, if I managed to fit in a workout routine, for now, weekly yard mowing is giving me something at least! I am thinking that this winter, I will start working on the Tai Chi videos that I purchased last month.

This Momma’s Meandering Mondays!

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Why Are They So Loud?!?!

I often wonder “Why are they so loud”, the children that is! Do they not know how to speak with a whisper? Must I constantly tell them to “Shhh”!


Today I am joining in for the One Word Blog Link Up hosted by Lisa from Golden Spoons, Janine from Confessions of a Mommyaholic, and Marcia from Blogitudes! These amazing ladies provide two words each week, you choose one, write a post, and link it up. It is that easy! So this week’s words were Whisper and Shatter, and I am choosing “Whisper”.

My children and I spend much time talking, about this that and everything else. Normally, when they come in to chat, their dad is often in bed. And their voices are loud, and they tend to stand in the doorway directly across from our bedroom! I am constantly telling them to whisper and not be so loud!



If we are out at a store, often conversation turns a bit crazy, and when they should whisper they don’t. Speaking loudly, you know that their voice just carried at least 3 aisles over, and overheard by all in that vicinity! Why must I constantly say, “Shhh”! Only to be looked at quizzically as though I have the problem!

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Why, when I have a headache, must they come in, talking as if they were outside in the middle of nowhere! I don’t understand why it is so hard to learn to whisper, and the appropriate times to do so.


I have been blessed with three amazing children, and only the oldest has learned the art of whispering, at almost 22. Children, why are they so loud, about all that they do? I often times wish that there was a volume button.

I love them with all of my heart, but why are they so loud? Why can’t they learn to whisper?

Ten Things That Surprised Me! #TuesdayTen

Welcome to another fun and fabulous week of #TuesdayTen, hosted by a couple of great bloggers Lisa from Golden Spoons and Rabia from The Leiber Family, this week I offer my list of Ten Things That Surprised Me about being a mom!

The kids and I

The kids and I

The Golden Spoons

Growing up, I was not blessed with a childhood that dreams were made of. There were some good times, and some not so great ones, but I am who I am because of them. The one thing that I knew for sure, was that I wanted to be a mom, especially to a little girl, but I really didn’t care.

My babies and I on Mother's Day!

My babies and I on Mother’s Day!

Due to the relationship that I had with my parents, I had a lot of ideas about how I would not want to make my children feel. I knew that I never wanted them to feel lonely or forgotten. I wanted them to always know that they could tell me anything, and I would love them without condition or judgement. But I didn’t know just how far the depths of those feelings would go.

Ten things that have surprised me about being a mom…

1. It surprised me to find such unconditional love from them to me. I am humbled with each and every “Tiny Mommy” comment, hug, kiss, and “I love you” that they bestow on me.

My Joys

My Joys

2. It surprised me to feel such a deep love for each of my children. I love each of them differently, but one no more than another. They each have their qualities, both good and not so good, that make them each perfectly imperfect.

3. It has surprised me to see the deep values, that were taught as they grew, actually connected and I see them being put into practice. They heard and they will carry what mom tried to teach.

Kids on Easter Sunday!

Kids on Easter Sunday!

4. It has surprised me that I was able to show them the value of family, and what it means to be there for each other, when that was a lesson lost to me with my own siblings.

5. It surprises me that no matter how much they may aggravate the snot out of me at times, I would be perfectly content to own a huge lot of land, that I could build 4 larges houses on, and the kids would be able to be nearby at all times!

My babies

6. It really surprises me that at 12, 15, & almost 22, my kids actually like to spend time with me! I mean, how crazy is that! And some of the conversations that we can get into, especially if D-man is involved! Holy cow!

7. It surprises me that despite being only 5’1″, one look will make all three of my children freeze, with a complete look of “Oh Shit!” spread across their faces! LOL! Respect doesn’t require they see that look often, but they know that it will not be good if they do!

My  babies and me!

My babies and me!

8. It totally surprises me that my children, don’t keep secrets from me. Now lil miss will still try a minor fib here and there, to test the waters. I however know the important things…some of the things that I simply just have to shake my head at! I mean, I am on my last one hitting the puberty stage!

9. It surprises me that D-man will watch a movie, and next thing decide to text me, just to tell me he loves me! Lil miss will also watch a movie, where the mother is gone or died, and she will run in to me and lay her head in my lap, in tears.


10. It surprises me each and every day that I am blessed to be their mom!

These are the things that surprised me about being a mom! What is something about your life that has been a surprise? I would love to hear about it!


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